A woman without a husband is not a problem to be solved. ​​​​
今天在James Clear 的email推送里看到这条关于自信的推送,感觉这个角度很有意思。


Philosopher Alan Watts on mistakes:

"Regard yourself as a cloud, in the flesh, because you see, clouds never make mistakes. Did you ever s ​​​​...展开全文c
"Quality of life is having the freedom to make choices that are not fear based.”

Danielle Colding on the ultimate luxury ​​​​
Fairy tales are more than true: not because they tell us that dragons exist, but because they tell us that dragons can be beaten.

《Coraline》 ​​​​
"People follow incentives, not advice."


James Clear ​​​​
"In school, you are graded on every test—even if it's your weakest subject.

In life, you can choose the tests you take—even if they always play to your strengths.

Maintain a baseline so your weak areas don't hold you back, but design your life so you are graded on your streng ​​​​...展开全文c
//@BunBunBunBunBunny:提醒我了,推荐大家看这部,不仅好看,大卫爱登堡的英语旁白我可以听一年,英音听力/口语范本了 ¡查看图片 //@BunBunBunBunBunny:这部太好看。Attenborough我可以听一天!//@熊猫xiongmaoo:想起了昨天看的纪录片:地球改变之年
听上海的朋友说窗口见到小区的黄鼠狼笃悠悠地散步,想起伦敦封的时候在阳台上看悠闲找食的松鼠和满街大尾巴乱扫的狐狸。也算是苦闷中的一点好笑吧。 ​​​​
"Look around your environment.

Rather than seeing items as objects, see them as magnets for your attention. Each object gently pulls a certain amount of your attention toward it.

Whenever you discard something, the tug of that object is released. You get some attention back."

Anything you are good at contributes to happiness.

- Bertrand Russell ​​​​
"Two truths that can be at odds:

1) There are no bonus points in life for doing it the hard way.
2) There is a lot to be gained in life by acting fast and giving your best effort.

Don't let the excuse of searching for a better way prevent you from taking action."
If you are not competent, most likely you will be vulnerable. Competency helps a great deal when it comes to resilience. ​​​​